A remarkable, resourceful bunch

The writers in the memoir class I teach grew up on Chicago’s south side, in the Philippines, on farms, as military brats, in plush Chicago suburbs. They are Catholic, Jewish, agnostic. One thing these seniors all have in common? They are resourceful.

Take Myrna. She lives in a Chicago neighborhood called Lincoln Park, and When she found out there was a waiting list to get into the current eight-week memoir-writing session I lead in downtown Chicago, she called to see if Lincoln park Village might be willing to sponsor a writing class of its own. A post on the New York Times New Old Age Blog this week describes Lincoln Park Village:

A two-year-old nonprofit serving 230 members in 165 households, Lincoln Park Village was organized by older adults who want to age at home. More than 60 such villages, modeled on Boston’s decade-old Beacon Hill Village, have formed across the country, and 100 more are in development.

Susan, another student from the “Me, Myself, and I ”class I teach downtown, offered to host a free introductory class in her Lincoln Park home last week. The event was a success, and starting in September, I’ll be leading two different memoir-writing classes for seniors every week: the Wednesday class I’ve taught for years downtown, sponsored by the City of Chicago , and this new Lincoln Park Village class on Thursdays.

Jeff Flodin was one of many writers from the downtown Chicago “Me, Myself and I” class who showed up at the Lincoln Park Village event Thursday to cheer me on. Jeff lost his sight in his thirties, and he and his Seeing Eye dog Randy took a bus to Susan’s place — Harper and I got a ride from a Lincoln Park Village volunteer. Jeff had never been to Susan’s house before, and the bus stop was four blocks away, but they made it. Talk about resourceful!

Since starting the memoir class a year ago, Jeff has come out of retirement and is working part-time at Friedman Place, a non-profit Supportive Living Community for blind and visually impaired adults in Chicago. He leads a writing class at Friedman Place, and has started a blog for the Guild for the Blind here in Chicago. The post he wrote this week about labels used to identify people who are blind was both thoughtful and funny — just like Jeff! Here’s an excerpt :

So, for everyone out there wondering what to call me, I’ll give you a clue. Blind is OK. But, to really grab my attention, “Hey, handsome!” sure does the trick, too.

One thing I preach to the writers in my class is the merits of keeping essays short: they’re do-able, you choose stronger verbs, and shorter pieces are more likely to get published. So as much as I’d love to go on and on about all the resourceful writers in my class,
I’d better practice what I preach. Just one last story.

That’s Hanna.

Loyal Safe & Soundblog readers are familiar with Hanna Bratman, the matriarch of our writing class. Last year Hanna was featured in a Someone You Should Know segment on CBS television here in Chicago. The CBS interview focused on how Hanna has embraced technology to write her memoirs–she has macular degeneration and uses special software that enlarges the print on the screen for her. From the CBS web site:

what do you want to be doing when you’re 90? Hannah Bratman of Chicago is going high-tech to make memories. As CBS 2′s Harry Porterfield reports, she’s someone you should know.

Francine Rich, my publisher at Blue Marlin Publications had been so moved after reading excerpts of Hanna’s writing here on my blog that she volunteered to collect and format all of Hanna’s essays for her.

So while raising three lively children and running her own publishing business, Francine found time to reformat 64 of Hanna’s essays and professionally edit them, too. The essays are still Hanna’s words, of course. “I didn’t revise her essays. There was no reason to.” Francine wants to surprise Hanna now by presenting the essays in book form. “Any chance you can get me some photos from her childhood?” No chance. There aren’t any.

Hanna grew up in Germany. Her family was Jewish, and she didn’t think to take photos along when she escaped on her own before World War II. She was only 20 years old when she arrived, alone, in the United States. Others in her family didn’t make it out in time. “I’ll tell you this,” she often says to me. “I’ve always been very, very lucky.”

Thanks to Francine, we’re the lucky ones now. we have the opportunity to learn from reading Hanna’s story. I’ll leave you with an excerpt:

I had not told my mother that I had gotten a “B” on that important test, and now I had to confess. “On that last test that he gave us, after his Heil Hitler, he handed out the papers, and I had a B instead of an A. All of my answers were correct. I raised my hand and got up, shouted Heil Hitler, and asked him why I had a B instead of an A. His reply: I gave you a B because you did not follow the formula I taught. You followed a formula I had not taught as yet. Besides, you are a nervy Jew to challenge me. I will downgrade all of your papers.”
I said to my mother, “I didn’t tell you about it, but I will never go back to that school. They don’t want me there.” I started crying again. My mother said, “If you really don’t want to go back, I won’t make you. You know, Hitler will not last much longer. There will be a change in government, and Hitler will not last. In the meantime, even if you don’t go to school, you will have to keep up with all your schoolwork and study French and English. I will arrange to get the assignments, and when Hitler is gone, you can go back. You know, they can take everything away from you, except of what’s in your head.”

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23 Responses to “A remarkable, resourceful bunch”


  1. 1 Cheryl August 19, 2011 at 9:10 am

    A remarkable post….I look forward to reading more of Hanna’s stories. Thanks, Beth and thanks, Francine.

  2. 2 judy August 19, 2011 at 10:59 am

    I love reading your blog. Feels like I’m talking with you over coffee, only you’re doing all the talking.

  3. 4 Annelore Chapin August 19, 2011 at 2:53 pm

    What calms my own heart ache is the fact that Hannah can still feel ‘lucky’ — what a generous spirit.

    Annelore

    • 5 Jeff Flodin August 19, 2011 at 3:33 pm

      Thank you, Beth, for including my name in your story. I am grateful for the wisdom I have gained from you and your students, of whom Hanna is one of many miracles.

    • 6 bethfinke August 19, 2011 at 7:21 pm

      You are so right, Annelore. A very, very generous spirit. And although it doesn’t show in the essay I chose to excerpt here, once others get to read the entire *collection* of Hanna’s essays they will realize that she has a wicked sense of humor as well. The TV guy was correct when he said hanna is “someone you should know,” and we are all so lucky to know her in class and hear her stories every week.

      • 7 bethfinke August 19, 2011 at 7:33 pm

        And I agree with Jeff, too – that class isfull of miraculous writers. He wrote me privately, too, and fessed up that Friedman Place owns a “Trekker Breeze” and let him borrow it for the trip to Susan’s place in Lincoln Park — it’s GPS made especially for people who can’t see.
        Guess it works! Maybe I oughta give one of them a try sometime –

  4. 8 Maria August 19, 2011 at 7:39 pm

    Love the people and comments from their works:

    “You can call me blind, but I’d rather you call me handsome.”

    “They can take everything except what’s in your head.”

    I may not have them exact, but they’re close enough and they’re great!!!!!!!!!
    PS How exciting that Hanna’s work will be published. Tell her kudos from me even though she doesn’t know me!

    • 9 bethfinke August 20, 2011 at 5:15 pm

      …and you’re forgetting the quote from Hanna: I’ve always been very, very lucky.”

      She is something. It is such a privilege to know her.

  5. 10 Bob August 19, 2011 at 7:41 pm

    Will Hanna’s book be available for others to buy?

    • 11 Beth August 20, 2011 at 5:12 pm

      Jury still out whether it will be a spiral bound copy from the likes of Staples or something more formal, and it’s up to Hanna and her family whether they want to order enough of them to sell to outsiders.

  6. 12 bev August 20, 2011 at 11:58 am

    What a great bunch! I’d LOVE to read more of Hanna’s stories! How interesting! Everyone in that group (or should I say groups) have great stories to tell. So glad they are in your class(es) and reaching all of us!

  7. 13 Andrea August 20, 2011 at 12:23 pm

    I called Lincoln Park Village right after I’d read your blog. When I mentiomed your name, Dianne Campbell had wonderful things to say about Beth Finke. I felt special knowing you and being able to “drop your name”.
    I had called for information and ended up becoming a member! So a great big “Thank You Beth” or not only entertaining me…but changing my future, as well.

  8. 15 MaryEllen August 20, 2011 at 1:10 pm

    Having experienced Francine’s generosity with making “Safe and Sound” books available to SitStayRead so we could give our kids their very own copy, I wasn’t surprised to hear of her kindness to Hanna. Francine and Blue Marlin Press are both inspiring!

    Thanks for another uplifting post, Beth. I may not always comment, but I do read all your posts so please keep them coming.

  9. 16 bethfinke August 20, 2011 at 5:47 pm

    Thanks, mary Ellen – for other blog readers, here’s an explanation of SitStay Read (SSR), a program I volunteer for.
    In order for a school to participate in Sit Stay Read!, 95 percent or more of the students enrolled must qualify for the National School Breakfast program. The University of Illinois at Chicago (UIC) Center for Literacy helped Sit Stay Read! design the program to coordinate with school curriculum — it’s meant to improve children’s reading fluency, encourage them to become successful readers, inspire them to explore the world through books, and help them learn to respect people and animals. A Chicago Tribune story by Rick Kogan explained it well: “SSR’s mission is fueled by sad statistics: On average, a child growing up in a middle-class family will have the benefit of as many as 1,700 hours of one-on-one picture-book reading before he or she enters school, while the child in a low-income family will have 25 hours.”

    Sit Stay Read! uses dogs and volunteers in all sorts of clever ways: children read aloud to specially trained therapy dogs, human volunteers visit as “book buddies” to help individual kids, and people like me come as guest readers – the books we read to the kids always have something to do with, guess what? Dogs!
    And Mary Ellen is right to compliment Francine –
    Thanks to her generosity, all the kids in the Sit Stay Read programs Hanni and I visited the past few years went home with a free copy of “Hanni and Beth, Safe & Sound.”

  10. 17 DO North August 22, 2011 at 8:41 pm

    Beautiful post. What a great gift you are to those lucky enough to be in your memoir class.

  11. 18 FP August 23, 2011 at 11:29 am

    Thank you, MaryEllen, but the scope of my volunteer work and generosity does not even come close to what you’ve managed to accomplish.

    Beth, working on this project has been a privilege, and I’m eager to see it as a paperback book.

    Francine

  12. 19 bethfinke August 23, 2011 at 11:49 am

    It’s all so exciting! And trust me, when we show off that paperback to Hanna’s fellow writers in that memoir-writing class, you’ll hear the cheers all the way from Chicago to Long Island.

  13. 20 marilee August 27, 2011 at 6:16 pm

    Two branches of the writing class! I love it!

    • 21 bethfinke August 30, 2011 at 6:58 pm

      Thanks. To be honest, I’m a little nervous. May sound odd, but I’m not so sure I can keep up with all these octogenarians!


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